I have lived in many worlds, and I was privileged to have done so when time moved more slowly, when there was so much more of it for me and for everyone else. Or so it seemed. For those of us who, like me, are now in their eighth decade of life on earth, time has speeded up; it is now at warp speed; days become months, months swiftly become years, and few of us can keep up.
Perhaps one's experience of time--or perhaps time itself--is now hurtling along on some accelerated track to the future; perhaps younger people still experience time as I once did. I may have less time left in which to do my work. Time has become more precious; it can no longer be taken for granted; one must use it while one still has it.
Yes, I know: The masked demons are burning their diplomas at Columbia. The entire world is engaged in a jihad-like media onslaught against Israel. It has gotten worse. I saw what was coming a long time ago...while I would never desert the battle, I do not want to spend my time jumping on every headline and repeating myself.
I often feel that I have exhausted all my subjects, that my work is now honorably part of the historical record, and that others are now on the job. I've had my pioneering say on madness, divorce, custody, motherhood, legalized surrogacy, female psychology, male psychology, feminist legacies, a woman's right to self-defense, the politically correct mania that has now engulfed us, the trans issue--as well as my work on Israel, antisemitism, Islamist Jihad, Islamic gender and religious apartheid, femicide (honor killing), FGM--and on the existential danger in which Western Civilization now finds itself, etc.
At least in terms of the Israel-related work, others have preceded me; many have also shared the honor and the burden with me on this subject; currently, still others, younger, have joined us on the front-line issues of cognitive warfare, propaganda, the Western curriculum, and on the extraordinary, astounding, unacceptable, and accelerating hatred of the Jewish people and the Jewish state.
I have trolled the mainstream media for many years, both in Europe and in North America, and all I can say is that the hatred has only gotten worse; the Big Lies have gotten bigger--but also, that some new groups have begun to acknowledge and try to address these problems.
To repeat myself: The New York Times demonizes Israel every single day. The articles always begin on the front page and continue within, often for two to three full pages, every single day. The international organizations and European countries sanction only Israel (not Russia, not Iran, not Hamas), as often as they can. Even as--or especially because--Israel is making incredible progress in its latest war of self-defense, and at the highest cost possible, the Big Lies, the street demonstrations, the campus interruptions/invasions, the marching hordes have accelerated in the West.
In my last article posted here, I did not include what the consequences have been of the last sixty-five years of vast Muslim migration into Europe, which has led to a dangerous, radical Islamism, one which now threatens to bring Europe down, and further, which has also threatened North America in terms of our education, media, legal systems, and foreign policy. This is the ninth war that Israel is simultaneously fighting.
Yesterday, Germany's leading feminist, Alice Schwartzer, came to visit and interview me. She is the founder of Emma magazine, and the one who wrote the introduction to my first book, Women and Madness, in German. She was both glad and saddened that we two Second Wave "icons" agree on what faux-feminism is and on what is going on globally.
I told her that while all the young women on American campuses are busy face-veiling themselves as a way of supporting radical, terrorist Islamism, and insisting that it is an anti-racist or pro-free speech for fascism kinda statement--that our very best feminist ideals are now quite alive in many Muslim countries, among dissidents and feminists, and among Muslim and ex-Muslim dissidents and feminists in the West. I told her that I've also discovered that my work on honor killing has been cited many hundreds of times in academic journals published in central Asia and in the Middle East.
So: Am I done? Not by a long shot. I have just finished a sixth and final draft of a new book titled: Talking to the Dead. I plan to work on editing my diaries (1958-1978) next as well as getting as many of my titles back in print and into as many foreign languages as possible. My diaries embarrass me; they are almost like Anais Nin's diaries. Will I have the courage to reveal my shamelessness, all my mistakes?
Yes, of course, I will continue to weigh in on Israel and the Jews--how can I ever give up this fight? But I may not need to do so quite as often. Perhaps I'll publish more reviews of operas, films, novels, classics, and historical works (often with Jewish themes), and I'll study and, from time to time, publish some more Torah interpretations.
Any other burning requests from my most valued readers?
Here are some additional comments that were received through email:
"Yeah, here is my request. Keep on living and keep on writing. Be a healthy Centurion one day.
I like knowing that you were on planet earth; it’s a comfort and it makes the world a better place."
"Dear Phyllis,
The only burning request from this reader is that you keep on keeping on. Your next projects sound terrific. Stay well & feel my waves of loving appreciation!!!"
"I really must repeat that we need your wisdom on the whole process of aging for women, especially how to manage it in a patriarchal world. I met with a 67 year old woman today who was at a loss for guidance on how to live the late phase of rest of her life. I gave her my best, but couldn’t think of any feminist books, wise words, written by people such as yourself.
Can you help?
Lots of love"
"This is great, Phyllis, excellent observations. Anyway, not to worry, we are all supposed to live past 100 these days. You have lots of time."
"Here's a "burning request": please do not stop roasting the arrogant, narcissistic, self-dramatizing anti-Israel college/uni "protesters" over your rhetorical coals! When I checked the news (Google News aggregator & then NYTimes) I did not expect to be twitching with rage at 1 in the morning. But here I am furious, fuming at the news that a vile miscreant shouting "Free, free Palestine!" has shot dead 2 young Israeli embassy staff at the D.C. Jewish museum. A direct consequence, I am very sure, of the pathologically self-indulgent performances of the "protesters". I will not be suprised to read over the next few days that the shooter, described as a 30-year-old Hispanic man from Chicago, is a lunatic who responded to the homicidal encouragement of the "protesters". The NYTimes reported the murders with in their usual prissily fastidious style. CNN and other media did a fuller, better job."
"Dear Phyllis
So appalling to wake up and read about the murder of two Israeli embassy staff in Washington. What terrible times.
Prayers for peace"
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"A good one to follow."
"Yes, here’s something I’m genuinely and endlessly puzzled by:
Why do women, far more than men, want to display their bodies? 75 years of very active feminism have not changed this. I don’t believe the Patriarchy forces this. I doubt the world would end if women stopped showing cleavage and legs.
Nobody is immune. I remember seeing Angela Davis address a huge, filled, auditorium at UMass Amherst, years back. She stood on a stage, leaning against a lectern. She had an enormous Afro and was wearing a low cut blouse. She leaned way over, toward the audience, her breasts straining to escape her blouse.
No one in the room could possibly have avoided this sight.
Serious women appear on tv , on serious panels, with their legs crossed , revealing legs up to their thighs.
I no longer believe women do not want to be sex objects, regardless of their sexual orientation."
"Dearest Phyllis,
I just read your latest post and had some thoughts to add having just spent three weeks in Israel this past March. Here are some thoughts.
In some ways the world turning its back on Israel’s need for defense has freed up the Israelis to do what they need to do without succumbing to their pressure which has always been the case during the previous ‘wars’. It also united the country that had been divided around Netanyahu’s so-called judicial reforms. There was no one we met who didn’t believe that the hostages must be returned for the war to stop. Further, most we spoke with, even those who hated the war, lost their belief that there can be a peaceful two-state solution. They no longer trust the average Palestinian who they accuse as collaborators with Hamas rather than being forced to do Hamas’ bidding. This is based on the reports of those hostages who have endured their cruelty. Most believe that Gaza needs to be back under Israeli control and cleansed as best it can be. even if they won’t say so outloud! They are tired of the continued terrorist acts.
We spent 8 days visiting with 33 mental health professionals and touring numerous mental health facilities, resiliency centers, and universities. We paid our respects at the Gaza envelope to those who were slaughtered by Hamas on October 7th – at the festival and at the Kibbutz. We heard reports from those feminists investigating the Nahal Oz soldiers’ murders and those who reported on the various government and IDF failures that allowed October 7th to happen in the first place. And we all shared the extraordinary pain of feminists who witnessed the silence of our sisters about the weaponization of sex during October 7th. The very sisters who we marched with and supported around the world to help them gain freedom from male domination. But in the end we came away with great respect for the Israelis who are making the incredible daily sacrifices to try to keep our Nation together for all Jews around the world.
I’ve many thoughts about resilience and its role in trauma healing. But more on that for another day.
Sending much love"
Just keep doing what you are doing. I loved the phrase “ faux feminism”