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Here are some additional comments that were received through email:

"Yeah, here is my request. Keep on living and keep on writing. Be a healthy Centurion one day.

I like knowing that you were on planet earth; it’s a comfort and it makes the world a better place."

"Dear Phyllis,

The only burning request from this reader is that you keep on keeping on. Your next projects sound terrific. Stay well & feel my waves of loving appreciation!!!"

"I really must repeat that we need your wisdom on the whole process of aging for women, especially how to manage it in a patriarchal world. I met with a 67 year old woman today who was at a loss for guidance on how to live the late phase of rest of her life. I gave her my best, but couldn’t think of any feminist books, wise words, written by people such as yourself.

Can you help?

Lots of love"

"This is great, Phyllis, excellent observations. Anyway, not to worry, we are all supposed to live past 100 these days. You have lots of time."

"Here's a "burning request": please do not stop roasting the arrogant, narcissistic, self-dramatizing anti-Israel college/uni "protesters" over your rhetorical coals! When I checked the news (Google News aggregator & then NYTimes) I did not expect to be twitching with rage at 1 in the morning. But here I am furious, fuming at the news that a vile miscreant shouting "Free, free Palestine!" has shot dead 2 young Israeli embassy staff at the D.C. Jewish museum. A direct consequence, I am very sure, of the pathologically self-indulgent performances of the "protesters". I will not be suprised to read over the next few days that the shooter, described as a 30-year-old Hispanic man from Chicago, is a lunatic who responded to the homicidal encouragement of the "protesters". The NYTimes reported the murders with in their usual prissily fastidious style. CNN and other media did a fuller, better job."

"Dear Phyllis

So appalling to wake up and read about the murder of two Israeli embassy staff in Washington. What terrible times.

Prayers for peace"

"💗"

"A good one to follow."

"Yes, here’s something I’m genuinely and endlessly puzzled by:

Why do women, far more than men, want to display their bodies? 75 years of very active feminism have not changed this. I don’t believe the Patriarchy forces this. I doubt the world would end if women stopped showing cleavage and legs.

Nobody is immune. I remember seeing Angela Davis address a huge, filled, auditorium at UMass Amherst, years back. She stood on a stage, leaning against a lectern. She had an enormous Afro and was wearing a low cut blouse. She leaned way over, toward the audience, her breasts straining to escape her blouse.

No one in the room could possibly have avoided this sight.

Serious women appear on tv , on serious panels, with their legs crossed , revealing legs up to their thighs.

I no longer believe women do not want to be sex objects, regardless of their sexual orientation."

"Dearest Phyllis,

I just read your latest post and had some thoughts to add having just spent three weeks in Israel this past March. Here are some thoughts.

In some ways the world turning its back on Israel’s need for defense has freed up the Israelis to do what they need to do without succumbing to their pressure which has always been the case during the previous ‘wars’. It also united the country that had been divided around Netanyahu’s so-called judicial reforms. There was no one we met who didn’t believe that the hostages must be returned for the war to stop. Further, most we spoke with, even those who hated the war, lost their belief that there can be a peaceful two-state solution. They no longer trust the average Palestinian who they accuse as collaborators with Hamas rather than being forced to do Hamas’ bidding. This is based on the reports of those hostages who have endured their cruelty. Most believe that Gaza needs to be back under Israeli control and cleansed as best it can be. even if they won’t say so outloud! They are tired of the continued terrorist acts.

We spent 8 days visiting with 33 mental health professionals and touring numerous mental health facilities, resiliency centers, and universities. We paid our respects at the Gaza envelope to those who were slaughtered by Hamas on October 7th – at the festival and at the Kibbutz. We heard reports from those feminists investigating the Nahal Oz soldiers’ murders and those who reported on the various government and IDF failures that allowed October 7th to happen in the first place. And we all shared the extraordinary pain of feminists who witnessed the silence of our sisters about the weaponization of sex during October 7th. The very sisters who we marched with and supported around the world to help them gain freedom from male domination. But in the end we came away with great respect for the Israelis who are making the incredible daily sacrifices to try to keep our Nation together for all Jews around the world.

I’ve many thoughts about resilience and its role in trauma healing. But more on that for another day.

Sending much love"

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Yoganana's avatar

Just keep doing what you are doing. I loved the phrase “ faux feminism”

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